Have You Thanked Your Training Partners Lately?
It’s easy to take people for granted. And the terrible truth is that, the more reliable a person is, the easier it is to take them for granted.
The problem is so bad that we’ve had to create national holidays just to remind us to stop being jerks to good ol’ mom and dad and show some appreciation for all they’ve done.
Leg Locks You Can Use At ANY Competition! Click Learn More below!
The same problem comes up when we train. It’s easy to forget the people who make it possible. For you to even get out the door, there’s a spouse or significant other who stays home to take care of the kids. And there’s probably a hot meal waiting for you when you get home, although you’re too tired and beat up to remember to show any gratitude for it.
But you can now. So, go on and do it. I’ll wait…and call your parents while you’re at it.
Did it? Good. Don’t you feel better now?
A great way to keep that good feeling flowing would be to also thank your training partners next time you hit the dojo.
It can’t be said enough that we depend on—heck, we need—our training partners to get better.
You might have heard that BJJ Fanatics Star Michael Musumeci has won his third Worlds Gold in a row. And his sister Tammi Musumeci won Gold at the Worlds, as well. Is it any surprise that—in a 2017 interview—Michael credits his success to having his sister as a “consistent” and reliable training partner?
That interview says a lot about what’s really important in Jiu Jitsu. He doesn’t give credit to a sponsor or a diet supplement. He doesn’t talk about how essential a certain brand of tape is. He doesn’t even mention a coach.
What counts most is having a training partner who will help him work through a new move, who will patiently allow him to repeat that technique over and over again, and who will help him troubleshoot problems.
That’s what’s important—that and stuffed animals. (Seriously, listen to the interview! Stuffed animals played a role in Mikey’s success!)
Hopefully, you’re lucky enough to have the same kind of “consistent” training partners as Mikey and Tammi have in each other. For you, maybe it’s the brown belt who always starts a roll by asking what you’d like to work on? Or the purple belt who will stop in the middle of a roll and help you make that small adjustment that becomes a game-changer? Or it could be someone on the same level as you who cheerfully drills a move over and over until it becomes as natural as eating breakfast? Maybe it’s just someone who encourages you when you have a rough day on the mats?
Got A Tournament Coming Up With Strict Leg Lock Rules? We Have Some Technique To Help! Click Learn More below!
Whichever the case, it’s important that we not take them for granted. Obviously, you should thank them for their help. (You’re not a jerk, are you?) But give them credit, too. When you show off that small adjustment to someone else, don’t act like it’s your invention. Give credit to the training partner who showed it to you. And when you’re rolling with those awesome partners, don’t let the roll become all about you. Ask them what they want to work on, too. That way, they have a chance to keep getting better. Besides, the better they get, the better they’ll make you!
Join World Champion Mikey Musumeci and his amazing new IBJJF LEGAL leg lock instructional "High Percentage IBJJF Legal Foot Locks". Have a leg up on the competition! BJJ Fanatics has it! Check it out here!
ARE YOU A BJJ FANATICS INSIDER? IF NOT, YOU’RE MISSING OUT!
Our Insiders Club is by far the fastest way to level up your game. Take a deep dive on one specific skill per month with the top instructors in the BJJ Fanatics family.
AND NOW YOU CAN TRY IT FREE FOR 7 DAYS!
How much is it worth to get private lessons from Benardo Faria, the Ruotolo brothers, Giancarlo Bodoni, Jeff Glover, Neil Melanson, Marcos Tinoco… and the list goes on and on?! Forget it, don’t answer that - because you get all of these guys and more… for just $9.99 a month! But the even better news is – we’re currently giving you the chance to try out the Insiders Club for 7 days – FREE!
With your subscription you’ll get a Private Lesson (Masterclass), At Home Drills to work on, rolling breakdowns and more. You’ll also get a sneak peek at our upcoming Product Launch and Daily Deal schedules plus access to Daily Deals on BJJ gear and merchandise (up to 80% off). And much much more!